Are you quarrelling with your friend because of differing opinions? Here are some advices to you! In a friendship, it is inevitable to have no conflicts or quarrels with your friend. Both parties will have differing opinions because everyone has different thinking depending on their own experience and believe. When you and your friend are quarrelling, just cool down because when people are angry, they tend to say nasty words to hurt one another unknowingly. This may cause a friendship to fail due to lack of communication. Instead of wanting your friend to accept your own opinions, you can try to understand their views first. In the end you may find out that her opinion is more acceptable than yours. Who knows? Giving in to each other will improve the situation and at the same time, let both parties feel respected. Regardless of what reasons that caused you and your friend to quarrel, never be afraid to take the initiative to apologise. Even though it might not be your fault, putting down your pride to apologise will make the other party feel appreciated. Wells, if she/he is a friend you want to stay with for your whole life, why waste time quarrelling? We do not know what will happen the next day or even the next moment. So we should always treasure whatever we have and not take them for granted.
Betrayal means that you unconsciously formed a revenge on those around you for everything you have not had in the past. It refers to breaking of trust in a friendship which can take a long time to heal. Even if it healed, it will leave a deep emotional scar and leaved us changed forever.
Now, you must be wondering why your friends betray you. It occurs when..
1)Your friend can feel that something is not going well between the two of you.(Unstable friendship)
2)Your friend is sick and tired of you. It could also be that your friend do not know how to put a full-stop to this friendship. Hence betraying you.
The reasons why your friend betray you may be due to the following reasons…
1) Broken promises.
2) Not keeping a secret.
3) You are not there for your friends when they needed you.
4) Your friends were not able to feel your love or support from you.
You must be thinking “Why did betrayal happened to you?”
–> It happened to us because we were all dealing with our own
Because of these, we failed to realise that we failed our part as a friend. We accidentally neglected our friends due to all these problems.
How do we know if we are a victim of betrayal?